Someone commented today that it was disgusting that people let their dog sleep on their bed.

• Health factors (allergies, asthma, immune concerns)
• Sleep quality
• Cleanliness expectations
• Household boundaries (especially if you share a bed with a partner)

If you let your dog sleep on the bed: simple hygiene guidelines
If you’re comfortable with it, these steps can reduce mess and concerns without changing the habit:

1. Wipe paws after walks (especially in wet or muddy weather).
2. Keep dogs on regular flea/tick prevention and grooming.
3. Wash bedding more often (for example, weekly) and use a top blanket as a washable layer.
4. Consider a designated “dog spot” or a dog blanket to contain fur.
5. If allergies are present, use HEPA filtration and keep the dog out of the bedroom when symptoms flare.

If you prefer no dogs on the bed: how to set that boundary
A no-bed rule is also valid. Consistency matters:

• Provide an appealing alternative: a comfortable dog bed placed near yours.
• Reinforce the rule calmly every time (no mixed signals).
• Reward the dog for using their own bed, especially at bedtime.
• If the dog is anxious, build a gradual routine rather than forcing a sudden change.

How to respond when someone judges your choice
If the comment feels harsh, you can keep it simple and firm: